constrained position, or with a tight ligature round some portion of his body, without suffering some physical retribution; and if the constraint and repression are applied to the mind instead, that also suffers.
Every human being is entitled, within certain limits, to live his or her own legitimate life ; and though this may easily be made an excuse for the basest selfishness, the habit of unbroken self-sacrifice brings perils of its own just as marked, if less ignoble.
There is a certain charm in it, no doubt-in feeling that self is absolutely annulled, that we live only for others, or for some one other.
But this is, after all, to quit the helm of our own life, so that our vessel simply drifts before the winds of destiny.
The true skill is seen when we sail as closely as possible in the face of the opposing gale, and thus extract motive power from the greatest obstacles.