where she remained thirty-five years, the greater part of the time as matron.
In her long career of usefulness she ministered with skill and affection to the sick and unfortunate.
In 1835, while in this institution, she married Columbus Tyler
, who was steward there at the time.
and her husband were among the first founders of the Unitarian Church in this town.
For many years she superintended the infant class in the Sunday School, and also interested herself in the larger work of the denomination.
When Mr. Tyler
resigned from the asylum he built a spacious house on Central Street, and there Mrs. Tyler
dispensed a gracious hospitality.
She was interested in most of the city organizations, particularly the Woman's Christian Temperance Union and the Woman
's Relief Corps.
On the north side of their house was a wild wood garden.
In it she had every variety of fern and delicate wood flower.
In her summer journeyings, when she saw a rare plant, she secured a specimen for her garden.
Those most difficult of cultivation responded to her care.
She gladly welcomed her little friends in the neighborhood to assist her in her work, and their assistance was not always helpful.
On one occasion she left two little boys of five and six years to amuse themselves with shovel and wheelbarrow while she took a nap. When she came out she found the ferns entirely cleaned from one bed and thrown on the rubbish pile.
Her only rebuke was a gentle: ‘My little dears, you have done a great deal of mischief, but you did not mean it.’
These two boys were Rollin T. Lincoln
and Edward B. Raymond
, who are now married and have children of their own.
Her friends were often the recipients of a beautiful bouquet, arranged with the skill of an artist, and the birthdays of the boys and girls in the neighborhood were always remembered with flowers.
The lonely and bereaved welcomed her sympathetic visits.
Always thinking of others, and never of herself, she lived a life of beneficence and charity, and died lamented by all who had the pleasure of her acquaintance.
She died December 11, 1889, and was buried in Mt. Auburn