Eurydice of Hierapolis Made to the Muses this her offering When she had gained her soul's desire to learn. Mother of young and lusty sons was she, And by her diligence attained to learn Letters, wherein lies buried all our lore.Now to put into effect all the suggestions which I have given is the province of prayer, perhaps, or exhortation. And even to follow zealously the majority of them demands good fortune and much careful attention, but to accomplish this lies within the capability of man.
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I will add but little more and then conclude my suggestions. Fathers ought
above all, by not misbehaving and by doing as they ought to do, to make
themselves a manifest example to their children, so that the latter, by
looking at their fathers' lives as at a mirror, may be deterred from
disgraceful deeds and words. For those who are themselves involved in the
same errors as those for which they rebuke their erring sons, unwittingly
accuse themselves in their sons' name. If the life they lead is wholly bad,
they are not free to admonish even their slaves, let alone their sons.
Besides, they are likely to become counsellors and instructors to their sons
in their wrongdoing. For, wherever old men are lacking in decency, young men
too are sure to be most shameless. 1
We must endeavour, therefore, to employ every proper device for the
discipline of our children, emulating the example of Eurydice, who, although
she was an Illyrian and an utter barbarian, yet late in life took up
education in the interest of her children's studies. The inscription which
she dedicated to the Muses sufficiently attests her love for her children :
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1 Plato, Laws, 729 C; also cited or referred to by Plutarch, Moralia, 71 B, 144 F and 272 C.